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20200713191259-slaa.org

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 #+title: Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous
 
-A 12-step support group for those suffering from [[id:225dc9bd-4352-40de-b3de-5554b939d47e][Sex]] and love addiction.
+A 12-step support group for those suffering from [[id:0c3817d8-2fbe-4a91-bab2-b4abbb024118][Sex and Love Addiction]].
 
 * Documents
 ** The S.L.A.A. Preamble

20220109103624-autobiography.org

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+:PROPERTIES:
+:ID:       0d323248-dd31-440c-975c-cc05d32f23d2
+:END:
+#+title: Autobiography
+#+filetags: :project:autobiography:
+
+* Theme
+It is possible to rebuild yourself authentically from the darkest of places.
+
+* Events
+- [[id:ec1129c7-6121-41ca-9e73-daa37d04bd93][Memory is weird]]
+- Youth / Living with Mom
+- Divorce
+- Vito's death
+- Living with Dad
+- High School
+- Puberty
+- Heather
+- [[id:a54fc4a6-4496-4f99-9c9d-c85481b65452][The Phoenix Inquisitor]]
+- Living with Mom
+- [[id:87659956-5aa1-4603-9d69-91dce70096b9][Otakon]] and Cosplay
+- Jessica
+- Tech School
+- 9/11/2001
+- Living with roomates
+- My [[id:0c3817d8-2fbe-4a91-bab2-b4abbb024118][Sex and Love Addiction]]
+- Jen
+- Crossdressing
+- Therapy
+- Journaling
+- Miscarriage
+- Divorce
+- Stephanie
+- Dating
+- [[id:5dddbae0-ddc1-4fa8-b824-113731ca9d64][Being transgender]]
+- Engagement
+
+* Topics
+- Expectations
+- Escapism
+- Isolation
+- Identity
+- Solitude
+- Connection
+- Growth

20220109104026-vivid_memories.org

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+:PROPERTIES:
+:ID:       3659228a-997c-4dfc-919a-fbf63e43d3d8
+:END:
+#+title: Vivid Memories
+
+Some memories from the past remain vivid, though it doesn't always make sense
+why some are while others are lost. [[id:ec1129c7-6121-41ca-9e73-daa37d04bd93][Memories are weird]].

20220109104119-memories_are_weird.org

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+:PROPERTIES:
+:ID:       ec1129c7-6121-41ca-9e73-daa37d04bd93
+:ROAM_ALIASES: "Memory is weird"
+:END:
+#+title: Memories are weird

20220109110551-outward_expression.org

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+:PROPERTIES:
+:ID:       6006993b-be47-40be-a852-0cc19e1514b8
+:END:
+#+title: Outward Expression
+
+I don't think I started playing with my outward expression at all until I
+started attending [[id:87659956-5aa1-4603-9d69-91dce70096b9][Otakon]], and getting into cosplay. I was watching a lot more
+anime and getting into more games, and I really enjoyed the androgynous feel of
+the character designs. I also already was a big fan of The Legend of Zelda. No
+surprise, then, that my first big cosplay was as [[id:e9a2e97c-8f12-4d98-bb53-c10fd94862f0][Link]]. Specifically, his Ocarina
+of Time incarnation wearing white tights.

20220109110604-otakon.org

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+:PROPERTIES:
+:ID:       87659956-5aa1-4603-9d69-91dce70096b9
+:END:
+#+title: Otakon
+
+A yearly anime convention.
+
+Otakon was a yearly respite; a [[id:1f9c7e71-8c56-426c-8c3b-f1a65ec97f28][Safe Space]].

20220109110624-safe_space.org

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+:PROPERTIES:
+:ID:       1f9c7e71-8c56-426c-8c3b-f1a65ec97f28
+:END:
+#+title: Safe Space

20220109110716-link.org

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+:PROPERTIES:
+:ID:       e9a2e97c-8f12-4d98-bb53-c10fd94862f0
+:END:
+#+title: Link
+The main playable character from The Legend of Zelda series. Usually young,
+male, and somewhat androgynous. In Breath of the Wild he is [[id:25b58077-fb51-4478-9e86-74668a311f46][deliberately
+designed]] to be gender-neutral.

20220109113514-sex_and_love_addiction.org

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+:PROPERTIES:
+:ID:       0c3817d8-2fbe-4a91-bab2-b4abbb024118
+:END:
+#+title: Sex and Love Addiction
+
+An addiction to [[id:225dc9bd-4352-40de-b3de-5554b939d47e][Sex]] and love / emotional attachment.

AlisonBechdel2024.org

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+:PROPERTIES:
+:ID:       69b94e41-ac14-4beb-b587-03ee256e1409
+:ROAM_REFS: @AlisonBechdel2024
+:END:
+#+title: Notes on Alison Bechdel, Fun Home
+
+Alison often remarks on the fallibility of her [[id:ec1129c7-6121-41ca-9e73-daa37d04bd93][memory]].
+
+#+print_bibliography:

why_link_is_male_in_legend_of_zelda_breath_of_the_wild_time.org

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+:PROPERTIES:
+:ID:       25b58077-fb51-4478-9e86-74668a311f46
+:ROAM_REFS: https://time.com/4369537/female-link-zelda/
+:END:
+#+title: Why Link Is Male in 'Legend of Zelda: Breath of the Wild' | Time
+
+In an interview discussing his design rationale for [[id:e9a2e97c-8f12-4d98-bb53-c10fd94862f0][Link]], Zelda producer Eiji
+Aonuma stated:
+
+#+begin_quote
+“Back during the Ocarina of Time days, I wanted Link to be gender neutral. I
+wanted the player to think ‘Maybe Link is a boy or a girl.’ If you saw Link as a
+guy, he’d have more of a feminine touch. Or vice versa, if you related to Link
+as a girl, it was with more of a masculine aspect. I really wanted the designer
+to encompass more of a gender-neutral figure. So I’ve always thought that for
+either female or male players, I wanted them to be able to relate to Link.”
+
+“During the development of Twilight Princess, I went a different route and
+created a version of Link that was more masculine. But after Twilight Princess I
+went back to the drawing board and decided Link should be a more gender-neutral
+character. Hence I created the version of Link that you see in Breath of the
+Wild. As far as gender goes, Link is definitely a male, but I wanted to create a
+character where anybody would be able to relate to the character.”
+
+“So that’s why I think the rumor went around that Link could be a female.
+Because maybe the users were able to relate in that way.”
+#+end_quote